Because you keep trying to set yourself as the victim and framing this to make it seem like you weren't the one who struck first. You gave an invalid feedback, you received an invalid feedback in response, you started complaining about the feedback you got while ignoring why it was given to you. When both were deleted you started complaining about that too and claiming that Topsy got preferential treatment. You kept claiming that he "got away with it". If you expect me to stay silent in the face of this you're going to have a really bad time.
My feedback:
>Topsy has had a long history of misusing tags
>still misuses tags to this day (unintentionally or not)
>other users repeatendly sent Topsy DMs to please fix it
>mistakes still happen (unintentionally or not)
>gets neged, nothing happens
>mod says to inform him if continue misuse is noticed
>users ping him when it happens
>never a reaction from the mod
>Topsy continues to misuse the tag (unintentionally or not)
>mod gets pinged again but still it looks like it gets ignored
>Topsy gets another neg
"NO, YOU'RE JUST SALTY AND TRYING TO GET HIM BANNED YADA YADA!"
Topsy's feedback:
>immediately sends a negative feedback without any prior attempt at all to communicate only to me.
"Seems fair to me."
You gotta be shitting me, NNT. You could have stepped in at any given time on the way I listed above which lead to my feedback. But you didn't. Only when Topsy sent his revenge feedback and other users were complaining about it, you decided to take actions. It is clear to me now that you have formed a bias here and it is preventing you from looking at it rationally. If that is the case you're simply not fit to moderate this dispute so unless another mod steps in, this is pointless to continue any further.
EDIT: Might worth noting that prior to this case, I already sent a DM to Topsy once about him trying to pass duplicates as revisions to which he didn't react really positively either. So, yes, I do assume Topsy doesn't like me and that's the reason why he only sent a neg feedback to me, and not the others. But no, certainly, his feedback had nothing to do with being spiteful.
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