If this is the stance a handful of other users in the discord/danbooru dm groups have taken on me, there isn't a thing I can say that will make them change their minds regarding my activity or understand these issues from my point of view after all this time. I was extremely hesitant about even entering this discussion since I felt there’s just no pleasing anyone no matter what I chose to do. This will either be seen as a golden opportunity for other users to lay in to me for past infractions I’m STILL trying to make improvements on, or they’ll know I was made aware of this topic but am being irresponsible for not trying to explain my side of things. But honestly, it’s already felt like there’s been no pleasing anyone on this site for a long while now as I’m still seen as either being unreceptive to feedback or I somehow have a refusal to make use of the dms for discussion.
I couldn’t just leave this topic alone when I noticed it became more explosive when someone else was finally willing to bat for me. So while I’ll try to address some of the most recent complaints vouched against me to my knowledge, I doubt I’m going to engage this topic any further beyond this since I don’t have the time or patience for that. People can complain that plenty other users practically live on this site with the frequency they post on here, but nobody on this forum should have the time or patience for this; we all have our own lives outside this website…
-I continue trying to prioritize my newly uploaded duplicates as parents
-I'm somehow one of this site's biggest offenders when it comes to mistagging loli/not tagging loli content at all
-My recent feedback against another user was a simple case of vengeful feedback posting
-I can't be bothered to read dms or answer any sent my way regarding these sorts of issues
Point 1: I’m willing to admit the upload of frequent duplicates was a far bigger issue on my side of things in years past and was very rightfully criticized for it by moderators. While I felt at the time that the website’s duplicate wikis didn’t give users enough info for what constituted the upload of new parent posts (namely what the minimal file size difference for new parent posts should be provided both images shared the same dimensions), that still feels like I’m looking for excuses.
The implementation of the NNTbot account a few years ago however has been very helpful on that front. It outright labels posts as either being the inferior pixel-perfect variety before they’re uploaded, or any listed as normal dupes likely meet the requirements to be new parents provided they are of noticeably larger file size, image dimensions, or have revised changes to them.
If a new post is uploaded by me nowadays and it’s listed as a new parent, I’ve at least tried to make an effort to compare it to previous posts to be very sure they meet either of the criteria I just listed.
Point 2: The tagging of loli content is unquestionably the biggest criticism being made against me nowadays. I’ve tried to be as receptive to all complaints regarding this as I could possibly be: that as a heavily blacklisted tag, qualifying posts need to be tagged as swiftly as possible, and to read up on the distinction between petite and loli posts to tag them correctly since both tags have their own dedicated wikis.
Me being held to a significantly higher standard to other users because of what I assume is my comparatively larger upload count seems rather unfair as posts by plenty of other users that may qualify for the loli tag aren’t labeled as such, or there are constant tag edits on those posts either switching out or removing the loli tag.
Before this point is seen as me pulling a case of whataboutism, I feel the userbase has seemed incredibly indecisive about what qualifies as loli content mostly due to a character’s canonical age not being a factor if I understand the loli wiki’s example correctly: where despite a character being many years old, if a character is depicted as underage/child-like in either appearance or mannerisms, it likely qualifies as such.
While I certainly agree for the most part, I try to find some sort of middle ground by using my familiarity with some of these copyrights. These are just some of the most immediate examples I can think to use, but I personally feel that NSFW content of small-bodied FGO characters like Shuten, Benienma, and Habetrot would’t usually qualify as loli since the source material doesn’t infantilize either of them. Shuten displays hedonistic tendencies, and I very much remember all three depicted as drinking and hanging with their own circle of adult friends that don’t treat them like children. Yet in terms of needing to tag R18 content featuring these characters, they are commonly lowered to the same standard as actual child characters.
So either my familiarity with certain copyrights doesn’t matter since a small-bodied adult/mini-person was “incorrectly” labeled as petite instead of loli, or examples of characters that either act like children or are straight up kids have their appropriate loli tags switched out for petite. The edits made to m-da s-tarou’s posts this past year or two are a good example of that. Of their frequently drawn characters, while arguments could be made for characters like Euryale and Stheno not counting as lolis, I personally feel that illustrations featuring the Prisma Illya trio and Jack the Ripper at the very least should have retained the loli tags placed on them.
Point 3: I highly doubt the issue would have changed for the better if the recent negative feedback I left for another user yesterday was either placed as a neutral instead or if it was discussed in the dms beforehand. What exactly happened the last time I left a critical feedback on someone’s account as a simple neutral record? The LastNemu fiasco persisted, what with their constant sending of antagonistic messages and all. While an admin was made aware of their problem habits, and while I certainly didn’t expect immediate action to be taken since the admin team is likely busy with many other things, what was especially disappointing was apparent talks on discord that criticized my neutral feedback to LastNemu as being a targeted case just because they focused on uploading dupes related to some of my posts (that criticism applied to their dupes of plenty of other users’ parent posts by the way). But hey, who gives a toss about my criticism with other users? Nemu only started becoming an issue to them when they started getting heated with them and other approvers on discord shortly before their ban.
Now this is not at all to draw comparisons between a full on problem user and an approver that bore issues with my tagging habits: this is to draw comparisons to the feedback situations themselves. My feedback was seen as vengeful due to it coming a day or two after they left theirs on my account. Had it been left as neutral, the whole point of having left my feedback would have still very much been buried under criticisms that it was done out of spite or any potential discussions in the dms beforehand would have devolved in to the pointlessly tiresome back-and-forth that apparently went down on discord yesterday. My negative feedback was not left to them out of spite; it was to hold another user for once to the same standards that I’m constantly being lambasted over. While I KNOW that statement will still be misconstrued as being spiteful, I kept that feedback post I placed as critical but carefully worded as possible. If I was running off as much of a tempermental high as people think I was, either that feedback or a dm to them would’ve had much more verbal stink to it and I just don’t have the time, energy, or immaturity to be getting mad at a computer screen…
Point 4: No dm sent my way is ever left unread. I’ve had thorough discussions with other users on tagging habits, the overuse/underuse of certain tags and correcting those for future reference, why certain posts were labeled as new parents and whether there were enough revisionary changes or file size differences to warrant keeping them as new parents. In fact, the first negative feedback I even had to contest was an accusation by ampzz years ago that I was unreceptive to repeated dms regarding my tagging habits when I never received a single one from them in all my time using danbooru (I sure wouldn’t have been against talking things out provided they kept things civil).
I'm very much open to talking issues out in the dms. However, if anybody knows they’ve sent me unanswered dms in recent months regarding potentially poor tagging habits on my end, what else am I supposed to say to you? I honestly don’t think I’m as careless with tagging nowadays as others would think, but you have to understand how bloody disheartening it feels to have your own perceived improvement to your tagging efforts or what little contributions you make to the site amounting to nothing after so much criticism over the exact same issues other users are commonly ignoring as well. But this wall of text will likely be seen as my asking for a free pass to be lazy apparently, since other users think they have been picking up my slack too frequently. Even though I’ve clearly mentioned time and again for others to not concern themselves with tagging my posts for me; if any posts were upload sniped by me, I’m absolutely tagging them all as fast as I’m able.