sadodere said:
Okay, let's ask the most important question here:
What are the chances of the mods or admins actually changing how we tag Bridget's gender? If someone truly brought up the best argument for tagging 1girl ever, what are the chances of this actually being changed?
I don't think it'll happen, and this whole conversation only makes me believe in this more.
I think you are sadly right, some people go out of their way, even contradicting their own argument... so it might help someone : Some people just go out of their way to justify their action even when they are wrong and nothing supports it besides "I want to". So yeah, take care of yourself and don't go too hard if you can.
Anyway, I'm here to inform people. I think there are some interested people in the subject and it might help them. (And, yeah it concern Bridget too since she is trans you know)
So, there is all this "yeah but biology here, biology that" going on or "but there is a penis so it MUST be a men" or "yeah but the character is XX so it MUST be female" (which is ridiculous on a site where we can't even look at them lol, you see what I mean "going out of their way" ?)
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From a scientific standpoint :
-Gender identity have nothing to do with biology. (And there are some papers asking bigots to stop using biology to justify their transphobia)
-If you really want to go out of your way on this subject, it is possible (but very anti-scientific because really reductive, the subject goes WAY BEYOND "me penis, me male") to say that there is a biological sex for "female" and "male". BUT, you may notice I used "female" and "male", because those are at least kinda biologically "correct" terms (They are not "correct" and still debated right now because the goal is to talk about reproduction and it do be complicated)
-On the other hand, "girl" and "boy" is commonly admitted as a gender identity term. So even there, using "girl" to tag is referring to ones gender.
-Gender identity is ones feeling of belonging in a group. It is a complicated psychological and sociological phenomenon, and is harmful not because ones mind is "corrupted", but because the environement we live in is aggressive towards those people. Not everyone is, but enough that trans people are killed everyday because they are trans. (And it is obviously way bigger for harassment)
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From an art standpoint :
-Why would we care ? Its just images on the internet right ? And to the second point I say yes. Images seen by thousands, if not more, of people ! And we know that this influences our mind. A L-O-T, hey there is a reason we do art since the dawn of humanity. It conveys messages to those experiencing it. And if being inclusive have shown to be good for ones mind, the opposite, meaning being exclusive, harms people. It has to do with what we see and experience in our everyday life, and what is normal or not. And the problem here is : Mods decided that they won't be inclusive and would rather be exclusive. And people will then not see trans people and it won't be normalized, meaning a higher discrimination risk. (And bigots having a place to hide and talk together also, not cool in my book)
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-"Yes but Japan is not like that !". Well yes it isn't... what's the point here ? I mean, I am sorry to put it this way, but even if this site is heavily inspired by Japan "culture", it doesn't mean we have to take the bad too... I mean this is straight bigotery right here and people going "out of their way".
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-"Gender identity is a myth !". Again this is false. In the past year I didn't find any papers that even had something close to this statement, and I always try to prove myself wrong. I mean, the evidences are here.
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-"It is just a recent phenomenon !". It has existed for centuries at least, if we go for the archeology path and a bit of interpretation albeit (but as with everything in archeology, passionating subject, highly recommend), we can say millenials.
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-"But I have known Bridget as a man for years !". Yes. And it will happen in real life too. Trans identity can sometimes take time to appear to ones mind, but when it does, more often than not, studies have shown that it was so evident from the start, I don't have papers on this matter but even as a child.
-However, it has been shown that often trans people take time to transition because when they understand they are trans, all the transphobia appears clearly and depending on the person, it can take times because of transphobia and fear of being hurt.
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That's about it. I don't really think I will come back. I like this quote "It takes at least twice the amount of effort to argue with bigotery than to create one". I think its true.
So, if you really want a solution, here is one :
-Create a "male" and "female" tag. Assign it to visible attributes such as vagina and penis (even if incorrect, do not forget). (It does not bother trans people as much, it does because even science say this is incorrect, but at least its understandable)
-Assign "boy" and "girl" to gender.
Easy to search and not too hard to tag. If sex is not seen, we can either let it empty, or we can assume based on the lore or artist view of the character if you are THAT bothered.
Have a nice day you all.