Yoto_tata said:
Hello !
I will try to address the issues with some of the logic here :
-Should we really base our opinion on Japan though ? Even more concerning such territory that is highly social and discriminatory ? Let's not forget that Japan has one of the highest suicide rate, that life for female (and it is just one example) is a living hell and worse it's hard to even talk about those things, even if it is getting better.
-While usually I agree that we should always try to see the world from other's perspective, it is purely from a compassion and understanding point. Kinda like in science you always try to prove you are wrong, it is a method to understand the world. But here, I've got a problem because we see the world, once again, throught not the trans people (or even the LGBT), we see it throught the eyes of people that always have the same answer "Yeah but let's just keep things how they are" or "trans is just a phase don't worry". Which, in my book, is not really cool and missing the perspective of the trans people out there while trying to use the view of everyone except them. And, well, aren't they the first concerned about this ?
-We can apply exactly this to every website. Be it Pixiv or anything really. I have yet to discover a website that for once try to look from the eyes of the discriminated, living, breathing person's that have feelings.
-I am 100% on your line with "Why would they make Bridget a girl now ?". She was indeed a cool character that suplexed the usual way men are described. But then, if I am sad on this point, I find the character development to be fantastic. Showing that mistakes happen. That being forced sucks (concerning her parents) and at the end of the day, the choice is up to you and you should be the only one to decide about yourself. Little thought experiment : Have you already been forced to do something you like ? Did it feel good even if you like it ? Studies have shown that a lot of person don't like being forced even if they like the thing they are forced into.
All of this to say : I know that a lot of people will be surprised with Bridget being tagged as 1girl. But the fact is that on most images she looks like one most of the time for the Tag What You See rule. Even then, is gender only what you have in your pants ? Or chromosomes ? Because this brings even more question and a lot of suffering (Gender dysphoria for example). Even science is not as strict as "These is 2 sex, male and female".
She also feels like a girl, so denying that is... well kinda rude for those that are trans (suffering, gender dysphoria for example).
And even THEN, the way the trans tag works is just not it at all. I liked this site for several year, and it is such suffering to see such conservative forces to act when we could offer beautiful things and keep people from killing themselves because of misrepresentation or saying "Yeah it's just a phase you will grow out of this". Because this is what we are talking about. Deaths. Daily deaths. And murder also...
On this sad note, I'm going to cry a bit lol.
Have a nice day you all. I really hope that this site will offer something beautiful.
Edit : I mistakenly wrote "the choice is up to you" talking about trans identity, which is not really how it works. It has more to do with feelings (mainly even if not always I guess) which are not controllable.
And is America such a bastion of human rights? At least the Japanese don't face incredible rates of incarceration, homicide, poor healthcare, etc, in their country. America also has anti-LGBT laws coming out nearly every week. So should we just ignore americans' opinions then? You're still forgetting that the developers have spent the past 2 decades explicitly claiming that Bridget is a boy despite any confusion regarding it. They haven't exactly contradicted themselves yet.