The most humiliating and cruel words in Japanese that I knew...In some restaurantTo say such cruel words to a female!How exactly did that result in marriage.During my university days, I was an exchange student in Japan.It was then that I met my current husband.It was during that one date when I learned about that "humiliating Japanese". Those words wereI will never forgive this person, was what I thought.Naturally humiliating Japanese"Japanese" here refers to the language."Going Dutch".For those who don't understand, it basically means splitting the costs evenly between the two parties during a date. However, in certain societies, it may or may not be taken for granted that the guy is supposed to treat the girl.