Donmai

Shared bed vs sleeping together.

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BUR #28896 has been rejected.

create alias shared_bed -> literal_sleeping_together

When asking what to tag I was told to create "shared bed" for post #7872771 But that makes no distinction between the platonic "snow white and the seven dwarves" style bed sharing post #7846980 and couples post #7853121, post #7493032, the latter of which would cover A LOT of posts, so discussion turned to having two different tags for that and a potential implication and when populating the above there was also a lot of edge cases for what counts as a bed like a mattress on the floor with pillows and covers post #5691576 so imo unless we want shared_bed, shared_couch, etc it should be something more general. My suggestion is something like either "sleeping together" or "literal sleeping together" to include things like post #5905429, post #6114769 with the caveat that it includes stuff like people settling down to sleep/waking up together to avoid edge cases 6391708. Like shared_umbrella it doesn't need to be romantic but can have those undertones.

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I'll echo what I said on Discord, namely that I do think a sort of "shared under_covers" would be cool, but lit[t]eral_sleeping_together is just a weird name, and sleeping_together is just an euphemism for having sex, you can't have that as a tag name.

BUR #28902 has been rejected.

create alias shared_bed -> shared_under_covers

岩戸鈴芽 said:

I'll echo what I said on Discord, namely that I do think a sort of "shared under_covers" would be cool, but lit[t]eral_sleeping_together is just a weird name, and sleeping_together is just an euphemism for having sex, you can't have that as a tag name.

Shared under covers is sounds similar with shared_blanket and they can be wildly different post #6825864. But let's see what people think.

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