I was trying to tag the distinctive head covering worn by Maleficent and Queen Grimhilde when I ran into this.
So, take a look at headdress. Fits, right? Bunch of things worn on the head, used as a fallback tag for things that aren't hats or hair_ornaments or such. Fits with what most people would think of when they read the word "headdress".
Now take a look at the headdress wiki:
A strip-shaped ornament made of lace or ribbons used to adorn the head in Lolita fashion.
It often refers to an object in which an elliptical decoration is placed on the head and a ribbon extending from or at the nape of the neck to hold them in place. They are also called "Hedore" for short.
Oh crap. Don't think most of us were using it 'right' then. And I'm guilty of this multiple times, many times in the past. Though most people wouldn't expect that this is for that one specific Lolita-fashion accessory.
So, this name is bad. It's ambiguous. Practically nobody will use it right, unless they happened to check the wiki first. And most people wouldn't, because it sounds like an obvious name for, well, headdresses, in general.
So...
I suggest we keep headdress as it is, for headdresses in general, because most people seem to be using it this way, and it agrees with the general definition of the word.
For that specific Lolita-fashion accessory, it sounds like we already have it described an existing tag, under lolita hairband. Now, maybe there are some headband/hairbands that don't count as lolita hedore, or some hedore being too big too count as hairband, and maybe this distinction matters for some people... but personally? Easiest solution is to just nuke the current headdress wiki (which was only added fairly recently on 2020-09-21), to avoid people getting confused and mistakenly gardening the tag to exclude normal headdresses (or 'mistakenly' including headdress with the hedore definition in other wikis when they are describing a specific type of headdress, like how I almost did).
Second easiest is to merge the headdress wiki with the lolita hairband one (wiki only, not the tags). Frankly speaking, I don't care enough to do this.
Harder is to come up with a separate hedore tag or something and move the wiki there. This, I care even less, because I don't see any distinction. But if anyone wants to do this, if this distinction actually matters somehow, they can go with this.
Anyhow... if nobody objects, I will go ahead and wipe (make blank) the current headdress wiki. This seems to be the easiest. Does anybody have any opinions?
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