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sleep_molestation vs somnophilia

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nonamethanks said:

These images depict sleep sex. If you really want to change the tag name, that's what it should be called, not "somnophilia". That's what someone who's searching for people having sex while sleeping would type first into the search bar.

Imagine if we called footjobs "podophilia" or some shit. It's ridiculous.

That's not really the same thing at all though, footjob is a specific sexual act while somnophilia (or, as things are currently, sleep_molestation) is a much wider term/tag for the fetish in general. You wouldn't tag someone licking feet footjob, because it certainly is not, but you'd probably tag it whatever generalised foot fetish tag if such a tag existed.
It's the exact same reason why necrophilia is a tag and isn't named corpse_sex, because it encompasses more things than just sex. And just like necrophilia, the images listed under sleep_molestation depict a lot more than just sleep_sex and naming the tag sleep_sex would be wrong.
We don't have many -philia tags admittedly, but we do have pokephilia instead of pokemon_fucking, the aforementioned necrophilia, and also forniphilia instead of idk pretend_furniture or something. There are others but they're sub 10-posts tags at that point. I don't think there's harm in using the term somnophilia, I don't think it's a particularly obscure term and it also takes care of encompassing those edge cases of consent and things like that while keeping the way we use the tag exactly the same.

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