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nuke manspreading

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BUR #18578 has been rejected.

nuke manspreading

Do we really need a specific tag for sitting + spread legs + male focus? The only image I saw that features what is typically defined as manspreading is post #6527669
The tag however is mostly filled with art such as post #6475329 and post #6525954

It has always been a fetish tag.

I just added a couple of posts similar to the one you said was appropriate.

Instead of asking for a nuke why couldn't you create a wiki, fix the tagging (it's just 100 ish posts) and see how that works out first? I admit it's my fault for taking the name literally, I didn't remember that it was for a specific concept.. I think the tag has merit even if I'm not really into it (that's probably why I didn't know the exact usage). But even then you could have simply just DM'd me.

If we define it properly it'll equal like a 4-5 tag search, so I think that's enough reason for a tag for exist.

Taking up public space has been also suggested on the discord. I don't mind that's as an alias if it helps explain it better.

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Admiral_Pectoral said:

It has always been a fetish tag.

Wrong. I specifically created it for post #5080221, the actual meaning of manspreading as wikipedia defines it. After that it's been coopted by uploaders who have never seen nor googled the term before.

Something like post #6554367 or post #6549837 or post #5316164, for example, is not "manspreading" by any definition of the word. There's no public seating, no inconvenience, the characters are alone. I'll clean the tag up.

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You can't tell me it isn't someone's fetish to see stuff like that. There wouldn't be art depicting it otherwise.
For what it's worth I did add it to posts to similar posts like post #6393482 but I haven't gardened the others yet. Waiting for this BUR to resolve until I do that.

Up to you to keep it or not, I don't really care that much.

Admiral_Pectoral said:

You can't tell me it isn't someone's fetish to see stuff like that.

Everything's a fetish to someone. The point is that most of the posts under this tag weren't about manspreading, they were just people sitting in a chair with their legs spread, and the concept itself is not a fetish.

I would barely consider your post to count, because there's no sign that the character is inconveniencing someone or doing it on purpose.

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I googled the term when this topic was opened and did not see anything about having to "inconvenience" someone. It's easy to understand it as just a specific sitting position in a public place and I would say that solo (but pov)) posts like post #4860062 and post #4647358 should apply.

Mentioning public space examples in the wiki would be helpful too. Do benches count? Street benches or ones in like a locker room? Saunas? Etc

nonamethanks said:

Everything's a fetish to someone. The point is that most of the posts under this tag weren't about manspreading, they were just people sitting in a chair with their legs spread, and the concept itself is not a fetish.

I would barely consider your post to count, because there's no sign that the character is inconveniencing someone or doing it on purpose.

It's the same case for post #6060359. I'm not the only one who added it to such posts. Same sitting position and in a train. Can't really call it much else.

pronebone said:

I've never heard of this term being a fetish thing but can't a separate manspreading (fetish) or a more specific tag could be made about it for male focus ones?

I'm not sure how we would define that tbh. I'm fine with just tagging spread legs and sitting for now.

Admiral_Pectoral said:

I googled the term when this topic was opened and did not see anything about having to "inconvenience" someone. It's easy to understand it as just a specific sitting position in a public place and I would say that solo (but pov)) posts like post #4860062 and post #4647358 should apply.

Mentioning public space examples in the wiki would be helpful too. Do benches count? Street benches or ones in like a locker room? Saunas? Etc

I think only public transport counts as manspreading. So those two examples should apply.

Admiral_Pectoral said:
I'm not sure how we would define that tbh. I'm fine with just tagging spread legs and sitting for now.

Ah sorry, I thought there was a specific fetish about manspreading. In that case I think anything above Sensitive doesn't apply to the tag since it's not a sexual thing.

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pronebone said:

I think only public transport counts as manspreading. So those two examples should apply.

The definition the internet came up with is generally "spreading one's legs for one's own comfort at the expense of the available seating/room of others". It applies to most public seating.

I guess it's not exactly a fetish but the confidence implied when sitting like that publicly is what people find sexy.
I've definitely seen a lot of people take pictures of guys sitting like this before, but didn't know it had a specific name.

AngryZapdos said:

The definition the internet came up with is generally "spreading one's legs for one's own comfort at the expense of the available seating/room of others". It applies to most public seating.

Okay, that just leaves the part about needing other people to be there or not.

There's multiple posts that had characters in the sauna or locker rooms doing a very similar thing, but the tag was just removed from them.
Stuff like post #4745318 and post #3433168.

The concept looks similar to me. Confident guy spreading his legs in a public/semi public place.
If these really don't apply it should be explained in the wiki (and maybe even use these posts as examples) so less people make this same mistake.

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